Our relationship with manifesting money and the support we need is a reflection of what we believe we can have and our sense of worth.
Throughout my healing practice, clients have often brought up issues about money and prosperity. In a private session, Rhianna (name changed for privacy) explored her limiting patterns about money and how to open herself to receiving what she needs.
Her plans on how to manage her finances made sense and were promising. However, her emotions were contradictory. She was trapped in anxiety, self-defense and justifications. In a nervous tone of voice, she told me what she intended to do and repeated herself several times, and then added that her family wouldn’t agree with her or support her.
When we processed her family dynamics, Rhianna continued to explain and justify her financial strategy. Her self-defense only fueled the conflict and anxiety she felt, not open her to the abundance she desired. She was caught in between the yearning to grow and her self-doubt, and ultimately struggling against years of being criticized. She was guarded against the support she needed, closed off from her inner resources.
Transmuting her limiting beliefs about money necessitated that she recognizes that she was operating out of survival. The more Rhianna was willing to accept her self-defence and instinctive self-protection, she become conscious of her need for compassion.
Manifesting the financial ease that Rhianna longs for is a wholistic approach that requires being gentle towards herself, and practicing compassionate communication with the people in her life.
We can all slow down and become consciously aware of our thoughts and beliefs about money, and be gentle towards our tender hearts and longings.
When our attention focuses on negative narratives about manifesting money, we inadvertently repeat limiting mantras that negate our desires rather than support what we truly want.
By positioning ourselves for disappointment, we don’t honour our self-value, and we become closed off from the support we need. Instead of focusing on what we desire, we tell the Universe that we cannot have what we want.
We don’t say this once or twice; we repeat the mantra over and over again. This negative mantra acts as a guard against what we truly want, not as a magnetic force that attracts desired outcomes.
To attract positive outcomes, we must be in alignment with our worthiness, not focused on limitations. In this way, we recite a mantra that is affirming and rich with possibility.
How can you dispel your myths about money, move beyond your limiting perceptions and conditioned responses?
- By becoming an advocator for self-worth.
- By being the witness that is highly aware of your constricting beliefs.
- By quieting your reactions through self-observation, self-care, and the willingness to heal and evolve.
Self-awareness is an act of self-love.
Self-awareness does not require changing who you are and how you think. It opens you to loving who you are.
When you no longer reject your limiting thoughts, your energy ceases to contract, your body relaxes, and you become aware of your deeper self. You connect with your spirit, become inspired and trusting, and you have a better sense of your truth and belonging.
When you’re not caught up in self-control and self-rejection, something amazing happens – you become expansive and cease repeating limiting mantras.
Then, your negative thoughts and the expectations of others no longer define you. Instead, you are open and receptive to what you want, life mirrors your sense of value, and situations arise that are in support of you.
Read the channeled message that inspired this article in
Dispelling the Myth about Manifesting Money, Part 2
To release your limiting beliefs and align with who you truly are,
consider working with me and receiving channeled guidance.